After the exam,it is an opportunity for parents and children to get along with each other.If you make full use of this opportunity,the child would feel that parents are paying attention to his growth,even if parents do not have enough time to accompany the child.Support and encouragement from the parents can be better transformed into the child’strength.
NAIS midterm exam was taken in an orderly manner last week.Although students don’t have to face the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination,exams do not mean no pressure and meaninglessness to the children and parents.For students,the test scores reflect their efforts and their learning outcomes.For parents,test scores can help them to know the child's studying status at school.
Each student has different attitude towards exams.However,one thing is for sure is that the student's attitude towards the exam is related with that of the parents’to some extent.Even if the attitude of the test is not expressed through words,it can be subtly conveyed in the interaction,and it is quickly learned by the other party.Therefore,parents’attitude of exams have significant meaning for children.
If parents see nothing else but the students'scores about the exams,ignoring their thoughts and feelings behind the scores,then the students will also express dissatisfaction in their own way,making the parents feel upset.
Therefore,parents should have a proper attitude towards the exams.Exam is a relatively straight forward measure of checking a student’knowledge of one subject.However,exam does not necessarily reflect the true studying level of one student.To do well in an exam,there are a few influencing factors.One is the mastery the knowledge,others are the level of tension over the exams,the physical state and emotional state of the exams,and some uncontrollable factors.When parents see the scores of the exam,they need to know it is a combined result of all the above factors.
When parents want to know more about student's exams,please do not being so rush in making requests,no matter what their grades are,whether you are satisfied or not.First of all,you can try to find how your child feels in the exams.Did they perform normally,better or worse?How is he doing in the review stage?How is things going on during the exam?If the parents have enough time,they can check the student's exam papers together with the student,looking at the wrong parts,and find out the cause of the problem.To do this,the student will learn how to face an exam properly in future.
In summary,the basic principle is,on the one hand,to have enough tolerance towards the student,tolerating the child's current state of instability on the exam,paying attention to the student's emotions and feelings;on the other hand,to be firm enough to hold onto expectations and requirements for kids,guiding him to go in the direction of expectations.